Many women today share the same sentiment; “there aren’t any good men out there anymore.” Well we know this isn’t true. But that’s not the focus of these words. What do you do ladies when you “finally” come across that good man? Now I am not the foremost scholar on making a man fall in love with you.LOL. But i can give you keys that work for me and ideas that my male friends share. So now I ask, do you want us to fall in love with you? Step 1. Make us fall in love with ourselves first. Ask him what is his vision of his ultimate self. Physically, mentally and emotionally. When you he has shared this picture with you, work with him on being bigger and better than even he has imagined. Find the characteristics that he has shared that you want to see him exhibit. Put energy into him to help him get to that point. Not only will he be the man of your dreams, he will love the man he is around and because of you. Feeling this way around you he will have no choice but to want to see you more and more and show off these characteristics you have helped him build. Like any gamble, which any relationship is, nothing is 100%, but when this occurs the chances of him wanting this to end will be a lot slimmer. And we all want to play with the best odds. Now I’m not saying this works with just any man. You have to find a man who is worthy of this. Make sure the vision he shares of his ultimate self coincides with a man you can and want to be with. Build a man up and he will run through walls, hand you the moon and share his insecurities with you. NOW GO FORTH LADIES AND BUILD HIM UP
Want Us to Fall In Love With You?
Posted on October 11, 2011
Posted in: From the Mind of a Man (For Her)
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Sherrell Jackson
October 22, 2011
There is nothing wrong with these steps however as women we often do these thing that u speak. Unfortunately a man is not attracted to a women with no love for herself dream, goals or ambitions. So while she giving her all into him she has none left for herself I’ve seen many cases of this good women and though she’s supportive she’s lost!! So the very first step should be you want a man to love you you have to LOVE URSELF spend time WITH URSELF BUILD URSELF to be strong enough to carry the weight of others. Then you will be able to uplift a man support a man on a very strong foundation! One that will bot crack under pressure or when u feel like ur not revue ing what u derserve. A strong women and add to a mans strength because we all are weak in areas she shouldn’t be making him only adding to his character and deeams
thenewcoolblog
October 22, 2011
I concur. But i feel real support,true support cant be given unless she does these things for herself. Until she is strong enough as an individual 1st. If shes not there first then she is, like u say losing herself in him. She is not supporting him, but living THROUGH him, which is not good for either party
Keisha Christian
October 22, 2011
I can appreciate the sentiment of this post. Being vulnerable and expressing insecurities is difficult for a lot of men, once they are comfortable enough with you to do that…..THE SKYS THE LIMIT
thenewcoolblog
October 23, 2011
Keisha. Arr you concerned with him getting comfortable enough to do that with you? Is it a priority for you?
teah
October 23, 2011
This is very interesting. I will give this a shot, and let you know if it worked for me! Very good point, because I know that men love to have their egos stroked. They also like having someone that supports them and encourages them.
thenewcoolblog
October 23, 2011
Let me know the response the first time you have this convo
jakia J
October 24, 2011
I agree with this and the first response. I have done this in the past but the key is it has to be the RIGHT man. One who is ready to deal with who he really is and change for the better. One is willing to rebuild and show the woman how to rebuild as well.
Nomalanga
November 7, 2011
Great advice! As you mentioned, we (women) have to make sure that we do this with the right man. You can drag a cat in your yard and tell it how well it barks but if it’s a cat, it will never bark! LOL!