For some couples growing together is a very important thing. I believe today many have gone away from this concept. To help get back to this idea I offer these tips that are sure to help you guys have fun, learn each other and start to build a life. So the moment you say you want to be “together” start these activities. These are in no particular order
1)TAKE COOKING CLASSES
These are fun and give you an opportunity to grow in the kitchen together. If both have some culinary skills it keeps one from doing ALL THE COOKING
2) ATTEND CHURCH TOGETHER
Go to your church, her church or a new church until you guys find somewhere you both are comfortable with. To truly grow together, you need to grow spiritually
3) START WORKING OUT
This doesn’t mean you have to join a gym but that would help. Start leading a healthy lifestyle together. I have found that working out together aids in the sex life. Could be the sweating, lifting, as well as ALL THAT HEAVY BREATHING!! TRUST ME ON THIS ONE
4) LEARN A LANGUAGE
Pick a language, grab Rosetta Stone or take a few classes. This is a fun activity and you guys can practice on each other.
5) TALK MONEY
Since most problems in a marriage are money related, why not talk about these things together? Discuss spending habits, saving problems, and credit the moment you decide you want to explore a possible long term relationship.